There is a reason why women of age 40 there and there about are called cougars. They can be wild. I should know as I have been dating them for about a decade now. My name is Alfonse Jurgensen and today I will be your guide to cougar taming.
Why Go after Cougars
Do I look fat in this dress? This is one question I haven’t heard in the last ten years of my dating life. There is a reason cougar dating is so popular these days. Cougars don’t tend to be clingy and needy. There are three possible reasons why the cougar you are after is still available. She is divorced, she is widowed or she doesn’t intend to take long term partners. For situation one and two, they will be on the lookout for something light. They have just been out of something quite intense and that is something they are not looking for right now. For situation 3 it seems unlikely that a person who hasn’t taken a partner for this long will take one up now. They have been through what one can go through being in a relationship and knows what makes a relationship easier or more difficult. You won’t be lacking excitement and spark in bed, but it won’t be make up sex from an intense argument either. Cougars don’t tend to be unnecessarily jealous but it doesn’t mean that they can be made a fool of either. The advantage of cougar dating can also come in the form of non-exclusivity. You will be free to see someone else on the side as she will be doing the same. This arrangement has to be agreed upon however, it is after all a relationship.
How To Approach
You don’t need to be James Hunt to land a cougar. Cougar dating is a popular practice these days and you can find many websites that specialize in finding cougars the male companion they desire. Join one of them and find someone who you can date. The trick is to look for the kind of woman you want to date, only older. If your tastes don’t match, you won’t get anywhere in cougar dating. Cougars may take it easy on the intensity but they do have a preference in men. They may even be pickier than women of your age as they know exactly what qualities they want in a man. Just scroll over and keep looking; at some point you will be picked. Don’t make empty promises like you would do to a more naive woman. They will see right through your bullshit and they are not inclined to believe anything you say. They don’t need you but they may just want you. Being a gentleman never hurt anybody because when the time comes, you will get your turn to be as naughty as you want to be.
Cougar datingisn’t as difficult as it is appealing. The rules are simple, you scratch my back and I will scratch yours.